Bennet, but we don’t side with him entirely. Bennet, in return, exerts the only authority she has: nagging. Bennet like the fool she assuredly is, and Mrs. These two illustrate magnificently by negative example just how crucial respect for one another is to marital bliss. Mutual Respect Is Essential to a Happy Marriage The first marriage we encounter in Pride and Prejudice is Mr. Here are nine lessons Pride and Prejudice taught me about marriage-and surely, there are many more. Marriages are foremost in Austen’s world, and, its place in literary theory and history aside, Pride and Prejudice enchants me again and again with its hairpin sharp insights into matrimonial matters. Nevertheless, the truth is that I still learned everything I needed to know about marriage from Pride and Prejudice. In Pride and Prejudice, as in Austen’s other works, the private angst surrounding the choice of a marriage partner really reflects the larger, public anxieties swirling around a disintegrating class structure, a new social mobility, and increasing personal autonomy. Indeed, like most early novels, Austen’s contend with the seismic social shifts birthed by modernity, particularly the rise of the individual. As a satirist, even if a gentle one, Austen offers rather unromantic corrections to vices and foibles, many of which range far beyond the surface themes of love and marriage.

When I teach Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, I take great pains to un-sully it from students’ film-adaptation-induced misconceptions that it’s a “romantic” novel.

Pride and prejudice cliff notes